I'm no expert but over the years we have met a few of our Members of Parliament (MPs). Maybe because we have lived in the ridings of backbenchers and they are happy to interact with their constituents. Maybe part of it was that we lived in towns where they had easily accessible constituency offices.
No one is born an MP so they all have to start somewhere. They are the most easy to communicate with when they are seeking election.
Everyone's story is different, but maybe there are some general principles that can apply in many situations.